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Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 9 the Peacemaker

Date Wed, 4/24/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Cost $65/single
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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Past Events

Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 8 the Challenger

Date Wed, 4/17/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 7 the Enthusiast

Date Wed, 4/10/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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Enneagram via Watching Media - Recap, Types 1-6

Date Wed, 4/3/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 6 the Loyalist

Date Wed, 2/21/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 5 the Observer, Investigator

Date Wed, 2/14/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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Crazy Little Thing Called Love - Prepare for Valentine's Day!

Date Sun, 2/11/2024
Location Boulder Public Library, 1001 Arapahoe Ave, Boulder, CO 80302. Boulder Creek Meeting Room, first floor
Time 1-4pm
Make your intimacy sizzle!
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Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 4 the Individualist, Artist

Date Wed, 2/7/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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The Enneagram as a Modality in Couples Counseling

Date Thu, 2/1/2024
Location 2024 World Conference of the International Association of Marriage and Family Counselors, at St. Petersburg, FL
Time 4:00-5:00pm
Using the lens of the Enneagram, great strides can be made to help the counselor earn the trust of each party, and for giving insights to each person to understand their partner’s behaviors and motivations, allowing for empathy and intimacy to develop between the couple. Cursory Enneagram knowledge is desirable to benefit from this presentation.
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Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 3 the Achiever

Date Wed, 1/31/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 2 the Nurturer

Date Wed, 1/24/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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Enneagram via Watching Media - Type 1 the Reformer, Perfectionist

Date Wed, 1/17/2024
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Watch and discuss videos of examples of the nine Enneagram types, in the full range of healthy, average, and unhealthy expressions. Fun and engaging way learn!
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For Your Pleasure!

Date Sat, 11/18/2023
Location Althea Center for Engaged Spirituality, 1400 N Williams St., Denver, CO 80218
Time 1-4pm
Bring Back the Sizzle! Discovery your partner's and your INTIMACY STYLE. 18+ or under 18 ok with parent/guardian
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Intro to the Enneagram, Personal Growth Tool

Date Sat, 6/24/2023
Location Vitamin Cottage, 100 W South Boulder Rd, Lafayette, CO 80026
Time 3:30-5pm
A dynamic presentation of what the Enneagram is, and how to use it as a tool for personal growth.
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Fall in Love Again for the First Time!

Date Fri, 2/3/2023
Location Rocky Mountain Pilates & Yoga, 816 E. Baseline Rd, Lafayette, CO 80026
Time 7-9pm
Bring back the SIZZLE by discovering your INTIMATE STYLE. For couples. Singles welcome, but best if you bring a friend, platonic or romantic.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 6/6)

Date Tue, 10/18/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 5/6)

Date Tue, 10/11/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 4/6)

Date Tue, 10/4/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 3/6)

Date Tue, 9/27/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 2/6)

Date Tue, 9/20/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 1/6)

Date Tue, 9/13/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 8/8)

Date Mon, 5/16/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Grace Pointe - Developing Emotional & Sexual Intimacy - Workshop for Couples

Date Sat, 5/14/2022
Location Private Venue
Time 3:30-5:30pm
Differences in the bedroom? Learn how to ignite passion from a Christian perspective.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 7/8)

Date Mon, 5/9/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 6/8)

Date Mon, 5/2/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 5/8)

Date Mon, 4/25/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 4/8)

Date Mon, 4/18/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 3/8)

Date Mon, 4/11/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 2/8)

Date Mon, 4/4/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Sex and Intimacy in Romantic Relationships (week 1/8)

Date Mon, 3/28/2022
Location DU non-credit, online
Time 7-9pm
Pursuit of the sometime-elusive orgasm is not being selfish; rather, orgasm and intimacy can be tools for becoming a more evolved human being.
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Enneagram Type SEVEN, the Adventurer -- In-Depth Series

Date Tue, 3/15/2022
Location Online
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
SEVENs are awed by the simple wonders of life, and are joyful and ecstatic. At their worst they are impulsive and have erratic mood swings.
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Enneagram Type SIX "The Loyalist" -- In-Depth Series (In-Person)

Date Sun, 1/23/2022
Location Louisville - email Paul for address
Time 5-7pm
At their best Type SIXes believe in themselves leading to courage, leadership, and rich self-expression. At their worst they become evasive, anxious, suspicious, and panicky.
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Enneagram Type SIX "The Loyalist" -- In-Depth Series

Date Mon, 1/17/2022
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best Type SIXes believe in themselves leading to courage, leadership, and rich self-expression. At their worst they become evasive, anxious, suspicious, and panicky.
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Happy Hour - Celebrate the Holidays by Connecting with your Passion!

Date Mon, 12/20/2021
Location Mudrocks, 585 E South Boulder Rd, Louisville, CO 80027. (Next to Walgreens)
Time 5:30 - 7:30pm Mountain Time
This is our Kick-Off meeting after taking a hiatus during covid.
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Enneagram - Scriptural Characters & Spiritual Leaders (Spirituality Series)

Date Tue, 12/14/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
What do the Apostle Paul and Gandhi have in common? Or Joan of Arc and Martin Luther? Judas Iscariot and Pontius Pilate? King Solomon and Francis of Assisi? Comet and Vixen (just kidding, ho ho ho!).
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Enneagram Brainstorming & Holiday Party - In-Person

Date Sun, 12/12/2021
Location Louisville - email Paul for address
Time 6-9pm
Social - Enneagram Games - Food!
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Enneagram Type FIVE "The Investigator" -- In-Depth Series (In-Person)

Date Sat, 11/20/2021
Location Louisville - email Paul for address
Time 5-8pm, social afterwards
At their best Type FIVEs are visionaries, open-minded, and have extraordinary insight and concentration. At their worst they become reclusive and isolated from reality.
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Enneagram Type FIVE "The Investigator" -- In-Depth Series

Date Mon, 11/8/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best Type FIVEs are visionaries, open-minded, and have extraordinary insight and concentration. At their worst they become reclusive and isolated from reality.
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type ONE (the Reformer) (Intimacy Series)

Date Tue, 10/26/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their BEST, type ONEs are extraordinarily wise, discerning, and principled with a higher purpose. At their WORST they are emotionally constricted, often workaholic, perfectionistic, demanding and opinionated.
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Enneagram Type FOUR "The Individualist" -- In-Depth Series (In-Person)

Date Sun, 10/24/2021
Location Louisville - email Paul for address
Time 5-8pm, social afterwards
At their best, Type FOURs are profoundly creative or artistic, self-aware of feelings, gentle, vulnerable, and emotionally strong. At their worst, they are moody, depressed, and angry with self when dreams fail.
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Enneagram Type FOUR "The Individualist" -- In-Depth Series

Date Tue, 10/12/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best, Type FOURs are profoundly creative or artistic, self-aware of feelings, gentle, vulnerable, and emotionally strong. At their worst, they are moody, depressed, and angry with self when dreams fail.
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Type THREE In-Depth Revisited (In-Person)

Date Sun, 9/26/2021
Location Louisville - email Paul for address
Time 5-8pm, social afterwards
At their best, Type THREEs are charming, desirable, energetic, and benevolent. At their worst, they are overly concerned with their performance, arrogant, postpone dealing with their feelings, and uphold their false image.
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type NINE (the Peacemaker) (Intimacy Series)

Date Tue, 9/21/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best, type NINEs are autonomous and fulfilled, have great equanimity and contentment, are at one with self, and intensely alive to self and others. They are supportive, healing and calming influence on others.
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Enneagram Type THREE "The Achiever" -- In-Depth Series

Date Thu, 9/2/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best, Type THREEs are charming, desirable, energetic, and benevolent. At their worst, they are overly concerned with their performance, arrogant, postpone dealing with their feelings, and uphold their false image.
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type EIGHT - The Challenger

Date Tue, 8/24/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best, type EIGHTs are magnanimous, courageous, protectors, and have amazing self-control. At their worst, they are swaggering, boastful, bullying, and deny their own needs.
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Type TWO In-Depth Revisited (In-Person)

Date Sun, 8/1/2021
Location Louisville - email Paul for address
Time 5-8pm, social afterwards
Type TWOs are loving and nurturing at their best, and manipulative and clingy at their worst.
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Enneagram Type TWO "The Nurturer" -- In-Depth Series

Date Wed, 7/21/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
Type TWOs are loving and nurturing at their best, and manipulative and clingy at their worst.
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Type ONE In-Depth Revisited (In-Person)

Date Sun, 7/11/2021
Location Louisville - send email Paul for address
Time 5-8pm, social afterwards
Type ONE "The REFORMER" This will be a FUN Multi-Media presentation!
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Enneagram Type ONE "The Reformer" -- In-Depth Series

Date Tue, 6/15/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
Type ONE "The REFORMER" This will be a FUN Multi-Media presentation!
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type SEVEN - The Adventurer

Date Tue, 6/8/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best Type SEVENs are grateful and joyous, awed by simple wonders of life. At their worst they are desperate to quell anxieties, impulsive, infantile, and don’t know when to stop.
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Beginner EnneaJeopardy (New to Enneagram Series)

Date Wed, 5/26/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 7 - 9pm Mountain Time
Jeopardy about the Enneagram - for Beginners!
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Enneagram Overview of All 9 Types (In-Depth Series)

Date Tue, 5/18/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
In this FUN, multimedia presentation (we will show video clips), we will QUICKLY take a glance and CONTRAST the Types in several areas.
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type SIX (The Loyalist)

Date Mon, 5/3/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best Type SIXes are trusting of self and others, independent yet cooperative as an equal. At their worst they are panicky and seek a strong authority or belief to resolve all their problems.
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type FIVE (The Observer)

Date Mon, 4/19/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best Type FIVEs are visionaries, open-minded, and have extraordinary insight and concentration. At their worst they become reclusive and isolated from reality.
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type FOUR (The Individualist)

Date Mon, 4/5/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
At their best Type FOURs are highly creative, inspired, and transformative. At their worst they are dramatic, self-absorbed, and moody.
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Ennea-JEOPARDY! Scriptural Characters & Spiritual Leaders

Date Mon, 3/22/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
Let's have some Ennea-FUN as we discuss these and many more characters, in the style of JEOPARDY!
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type THREE (The Achiever)

Date Tue, 3/9/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
Type THREEs are charming, desirable, and energetic at their best, and are concerned with their performance, arrogant, and have intimacy problems at their worst.
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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type TWO (The Nurturer)

Date Tue, 2/23/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
Type TWOs are loving and nurturing at their best, and manipulative and clingy at their worst.
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What was Jesus' Enneagram Type?

Date Tue, 2/9/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
Does Jesus have one Enneagram type, or does he encompass them all?
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Sexual Expression and the Enneagram, GUT Triad 8, 9, 1

Date Tue, 1/19/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
How your Enneagram type plays a part in your unique SEXUAL EXPRESSION. Does your Enneagram type follow you to the bedroom? Yes, it does!
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Sexual Expression and the Enneagram, HEAD Triad 5, 6, 7

Date Tue, 1/5/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
How your Enneagram type plays a part in your unique SEXUAL EXPRESSION. Does your Enneagram type follow you to the bedroom? Yes, it does!
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YOUR Family Tree - and the Enneagram - a Party!

Date Tue, 12/15/2020
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
An end-of-year Holiday Enneagram Party Discussion YULE not want to miss!
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Sexual Expression and the Enneagram, HEART Triad 2, 3, 4

Date Tue, 12/1/2020
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
How your Enneagram type plays a part in your unique SEXUAL EXPRESSION. Does your Enneagram type follow you to the bedroom? Yes, it does!
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Gender Identity & Roles, Feminine & Masculine, and The Enneagram

Date Tue, 11/10/2020
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
Have you noticed the nuances of types when you compare a female and a male of a given type? And what about those identifying as gender neutral. Society may impose expectations for men and women – how is that reflected in Enneagram Types? In this meeting we will examine all nine types and how they may be stereo-typed to be male or female.
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Path to Passion - Learn your Erotic Blueprint!

Date Fri, 10/30/2020
Location Online - 3 day live event
Discover breakthrough techniques and practices for cultivating connection and arousal, confidence and safety, opening new worlds of pleasure and sexual satisfaction in your romantic life. Contact Paul at PaulP@CoCreativeIntimacy.com for a free ticket, if available.
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Love & Sex and the Enneagram - Trent Thornley and Paul Paiva

Date Tue, 10/6/2020
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
A candid discussion of Love and Sex using the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth.
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Enneagram - Couple Panel - THREE and EIGHT

Date Tue, 8/25/2020
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time
See the Enneagram in Action in this Interview of a Couple!
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Fall in Love Again for the First Time!

Date Sat, 2/29/2020
Location Mudrocks, 585 E South Boulder Rd, Louisville, CO 80027. (Next to Walgreens)
Time 6-8pm
Bring back the SIZZLE by discovering your INTIMATE STYLE. For couple or singles.

Learn your Bedroom Personality

Date Sat, 1/25/2020
Location May-Bees, 3135 28th St, Boulder, CO 80301. (Next to Glacier Ice Cream)
Time 3-4:30pm
Learning your bedroom personality is the key to having amazing intimacy and sex!

Fall in Love Again for the First Time!

Date Sat, 1/18/2020
Location Alchemy of Movement, 2436 30th St., Boulder, CO 80301.
Time 6-8pm
Bring back the SIZZLE by discovering your INTIMATE STYLE. For couple or singles.

Erotic Blueprints™ 101

Date Sat, 12/7/2019
Location Maybees, 3135 28th St, Boulder, CO 80301. Next to Glacier Ice Cream.
Time 5-6:30pm
Learning the Erotic Blueprints™ is like learning about your sexual personality. It is like learning how you (and your partners) are wired for sexual pleasure. Consider starting a journey of amazing sexual fulfillment with any partner!

Erotic Blueprints™ 101

Date Sat, 10/12/2019
Location Boulder Public Library
Time 1-2:30pm
Learning the Erotic Blueprints™ is like learning about your sexual personality. It is like learning how you (and your partners) are wired for sexual pleasure. Consider starting a journey of amazing sexual fulfillment with any partner!

Intro to the Enneagram, Personal Growth Tool

Date Tue, 6/25/2019
Location Vitamin Cottage, 100 W South Boulder Rd, Lafayette, CO 80026
Time 6:30-8pm
A dynamic presentation of what the Enneagram is, and how to use it as a tool for personal growth.
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Intro to the Enneagram, Personal Growth Tool

Date Tue, 6/11/2019
Location Vitamin Cottage, 100 W South Boulder Rd, Lafayette, CO 80026
Time 6:30-8pm
A dynamic presentation of what the Enneagram is, and how to use it as a tool for personal growth.
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Intro to the Enneagram, Personal Growth Tool

Date Tue, 1/15/2019
Location Vitamin Cottage, 2685 Pearl St, Boulder, CO 80302
Time 6:30-8pm
A dynamic presentation of what the Enneagram is, and how to use it as a tool for personal growth.
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