Sessions can be in my office north of Denver, or via zoom video.

Couples Counseling

Communication Style Differences

Intimacy Style Differences

		BEFORE		AFTER
		When I ask him about his feelings, he shuts down and is emotionally absent for 2-3 days.		Now I know how to talk to him in a way that he prefers.  I'm able to relax.

First, schedule a 20 minute Discovery Session so I can learn about your situation and explain the process, and you can ask any questions. I am a neutral party for couples, with a mission to learn and understand each of your needs and goals. I specialize in balancing differences in communication and intimacy styles, with the goal of enhancing these areas and enriching relationships. I am also a certified intimacy & sex coach, and an Enneagram specialist.

Start the journey of achieving your intimacy goals!   
Schedule a Free 20 minute Discovery Session  
 

	BEFORE		AFTER
	SHE:  I feel unattractive.  Why doesn't he want to be with me? HE:  When my wife wants to be intimate, I want to run away.		SHE:  I feel sexy. HE:  Now I understand my arousal pattern.  WE:  Finally we are intimate after months of being distant.

Individual Counseling

• Relational Issues
  • My partner is unavailable for counseling, yet I want to grow personally and as a couple
  • Contemplating separation or divorce
    • Assistance with creating a Parenting Plan
    • Learn tips for smoother co-parenting
  • Dating
    • Learn how to identify and attract a partner compatible with your personality and communication style
    • Men - develop confidence in your masculinity.  This is key to attracting your feminine partner
    • Develop emotional intimacy when you already have physical attraction
    • Develop physical chemistry when you already have emotional intimacy.
    • Is pornography appropriate?  See my approach to this on the Obstacles to Intimacy page
    • How to manage it when you suspect your partner of a porn addition
  • My partner wants to be polyamorous, but I'm unwilling
  • I want to be polyamorous, but my partner is unwilling
• Spirituality
  • I have suffered religious shame, hurt, or ridicule from the past or present
  • Integrate your journey in faith with your sexuality
  • I'm not religious, but my partner is
  • I have faith, but my partner does not