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Sexual Expression and Enneagram Type ONE (the Reformer) (Intimacy Series)

Date Tue, 10/26/2021
Location Online - register to receive the event link.
Time 6:30 - 8:30pm Mountain Time

Does your Enneagram type follow you to the bedroom? Yes, it does!

INNER BELIEF of average ONEs
"I am a good partner and i make love correctly. ” (Ann Gadd)"

MOTTO of Average ONEs
"I do the right thing."

"I try to be a better person and improve my skills as a lover, but my partner doesn't appreciate my efforts."

HEALTHY sexual expression ONEs
A calm abiding coupled with an appreciation of our many unique and valuable differences. This serene, innate idealism can result in unrestricted and uninhibited personal expression. The heart opens with unconditional goodness, joy, and felt-sense of the sacred.

If you have had a challenging experience with an ONE, you will learn about healthy ONE expression!

At their BEST, type ONEs are extraordinarily wise, discerning, and principled with a higher purpose. At their WORST they are emotionally constricted, often workaholic, perfectionistic, demanding and opinionated. 


Photos contains characters who likely imbue ONE energy.


We will examine the full spectrum of SEXUAL EXPRESSION of Type ONE:





  • Disintegration 
  • Challenges
  • Levels of Health
  • Tips and Tricks
  • Growth
  • Gifts


    • Sexual
    • Social
    • Self-Preservation


    • Energetic
    • Sensual
    • Sexual
    • Kinky
    • Shapeshifter


♥ Sexual passion doesn't have to wane as you spend more years with your partner!
♥ Your sexual vibrancy can increase even if you are single or celibate or resting!

"Sexual incompatibility" can be transformed into INTIMACY when we have greater understanding and appreciation of ourselves, and of our partner.

Photo is Mel Monroe (Alexandra Breckenridge) and Jack Sheridan (Martin Henderson) from Virgin River, Netflix 2019-21, who play type ONEs in the show.

This is part of our INTIMACY SERIES which addresses how the Enneagram can be valuable to understanding love, intimacy, and sexuality. We are starting with TWO and ending with ONE.

BIO of Group Leader and Facilitator Paul Paiva
Rev. Paul Paiva, M.Div., M.A., is a devout Feminist Christian who is sex-positive, LGBTQIA-embracing, poly-friendly, and kink-friendly. For 17 years he has taught the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth to couples, individuals, and groups, and has served 8 years on the board of Enneagram Colorado (IEA), and is currently its president. He does couples counseling, and is a certified intimacy and sexuality coach who teaches the Erotic Blueprints™ to singles and couples who want to ignite their passion, including those affected by religion-induced expectations and shame. He is a former Roman Catholic priest who performs romantic and entertaining wedding ceremonies.
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ATTENDANCE will be ONLINE via a Zoom link will be sent when you sign up, or email PaulP@CoCreativeIntimacy.com to request the link in advance.

Age 18+ unless accompanied by parent or guardian. You will be asked to turn on your video camera, at least in the beginning, to ensure safety of participants - we want so be sure you are a "real" person.

A special WELCOME to those from afar who may not normally be visiting our group due to distance, which is no longer a barrier!

6:30 Meeting STARTS PROMPTLY. May I suggest joining at 6:20 or 6:25 in case any technical glitches need to be solved in your environment.
AFTER the meeting, we will do some ONLINE SOCIALIZING, so keep your favorite cup of tea, cab, or appetizers nearby!