BEYOND the 5 Languages of Love, the 5 Intimacy Styles, also known as the Erotic Blueprints™, help you to understand your sexual personality, your arousal mechanism. We are not all the same! Paul has undergone training and is certified to teach this.
- ♥ I savor anticipation and longing.
- ♥ I'm attracted to you... but don't touch me too soon, or too much.
- ♥ Let's sit on the couch, 3 inches apart.
- ♥ I want to connect with you emotionally and verbally.
- ♥ I can feel your pain.
- ♥ Feeling spiritually connected with you is necessary before I can be aroused.
- ♥ No, I didn't orgasm this time but I'm so fulfilled being with you.
Sensual - Titilating All 5 Senses
- ♥ I come alive when I feel your soft and silky bedsheets.
- ♥ I feel connected with you when I see the sensual and romantic pictures on the wall above your bed.
- ♥ Those fragrant and beautiful flowers allow me to be my sexy self.
- ♥ Mmmm - I see a bowl of strawberries next to the bed!
- ♥ I love it when I feel your sensual caresses all over my body.
Sexual - Straightforward Sex - Common in the Movies
- ♥ I want you to penetrate me, now.
- ♥ Because our guests arrived 15 minutes early, I didn't get to orgasm and I'm upset about that.
- ♥ I do like it rough. Often!
- ♥ I feel so connected with you and aroused when you grab my genitals when we first climb into bed.
- ♥ The more revealing the outfit... the better!
Kinky - Love of the Taboo
- ♥ Tie up my wrists and blindfold me tonight.
- ♥ That hurt so good!
- ♥ I never thought I would enjoy a paddling, but that was so good in the middle of our lovemaking.
- ♥ I just melt when you say, "good girl".
Shapeshifter - Needing ALL the Above
- ♥ Our play was energetic last time, but tonight I'm craving sensual.
- ♥ My partner says I'm amazing in the bedroom - but I'm bored.