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A Cord of Three Strands is Not Easily Broken

  • By: Paul Paiva
  • Posted on: 2/11/2020

A Cord of Three Strands is Not Easily Broken, Ecclesiastes 4:13

Traditionally, we know this means that a married couple who has God as part of their bond, has a strong marriage.  This is true.

How does a couple develop this bond with God?  The obvious answer is they pray together.  This is true.

In our individual spiritual journeys, we are called to be transparent with God, allowing God to see all our imperfections, our brokenness, our sinful nature.  This humility is necessary so we know to rely on God.  Jesus dying on the cross is a lesson to us - to give up control.  To let go and let God.  This is the Christian Path. 



Orgasms are not merely for pleasure! 

In sexual love, orgasm is a beautiful God-given gift, given not solely for pleasure, but especially for our spiritual growth.  In orgasm, you lose every ounce of control.  Orgasm is a natural sacrament or spiritual gift that unravels our natural human propensity to hide, be inauthentic, lie, cheat, or to be selfish.  

So, definitely pray together to make your marriage bond stronger.  But realize that the journey to having amazing orgasms is also part of the complete journey to strengthen your marriage.   Orgasms teach us to let go.  There are many ways to let go and let God.  Orgasms are the crème de la crème of spiritual gifts for married couples!  Orgasms can teach you to be more transparent, more honest, and more genuine with each other.  Orgasms are part of a healthy Christian marriage!

Therefore, A Cord of Three Strands is Not Easily Broken, when the cords are bonded by sexual passion, which inspires transparency.