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A Cord of Three Strands is Not Easily Broken

By: Paul Paiva
Published: 4/8/2020

A Cord of Three Strands is Not Easily Broken, Ecclesiastes 4:13

Traditionally, we know this means that a married couple who has God as part of their bond, has a strong marriage.  

Q:  How does a couple develop this bond with God? 

A:  The traditional answer is they pray together.  

A more complete answer, is that married couples are called to pray beyond words and feelings.  

Orgasms are for pleasure... AND spiritual growth.   

In sexual love, orgasm is a beautiful God-given gift, given not solely for pleasure, but especially for our spiritual growth.  The connection of orgasm is beyond mere words and feelings.  In orgasm, you lose every ounce of control.  Orgasm is a natural spiritual gift or sacrament  that unravels our natural human propensity to hide, be inauthentic, lie, cheat, or to be selfish.


In our spiritual journey, we are called to be transparent with God, allowing God to see all our imperfections, our brokenness, our sinful nature.  This humility helps us to rely on God.  Jesus dying on the cross is a lesson to us - to give up control.  To let go and let God.  This is the Christian Path. 

So, definitely pray together by sharing words and feelings.  This will make your marriage bond stronger.  But realize that the journey to having amazing orgasms is also part of the complete journey to strengthen your marriage.   Orgasms teach us to let go.  There are many ways to let go and let God.  Orgasms are the crème de la crème of spiritual gifts for married couples!  Orgasms can teach you to be more transparent, more honest, and more genuine with each other.  Orgasms are part of a healthy Christian marriage!

Therefore, A Cord of Three Strands is Not Easily Broken, when the cords are bonded by sexual passion.